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Ask
Many times as women, self included, because we hussle we see others when they try. Over the years l have paid a great deal in emotionally pain because l did not want those l care for to resort to ASK. I found myself assessing the situation and offer help before it’s asked for. This l have realised breeds entitlement and destroys relationships. Regardless who it is allow them to ASK for help. In many times l found myself feeling unappreciated after having given over and over. Then it dawned on me. The feeling of being unappreciated was a gift from God. He was reminding me that l am taking His place. Only God should know and give before one ASKs. I realized l need to let people ASK, because as they ASK pride dies.
Advise ‘usanyarire munhu kuti akumbire’ dont take away the gift of ASKING, for in asking pride of man dies.