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Accolade vs Financial Security.

Choosing between accolades and financial security depends on personal priorities. Accolades can bring recognition and personal fulfillment, while financial security provides stability and peace of mind. Striking a balance that aligns with your values and goals is often key. Everyday, now l seem faced by this question. What would it be for you? I guess l am getting older and […]

Barnacles

Barnacles:” a small sea creature with a shell, that sticks very tightly and in large numbers to rocks and the bottom of boats.”Just been reflecting on how in everyday life one gets these attached to one’s life without even realizing it. These barnacles can be little habits or people. Barnacles slows you down, in case of ships they end up […]

Entitlement vs Relationship

Entilement :-the belief that one is inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment. Relationship:-the way in which two or more people or groups regard and behave towards each other. As we close the year 2022, for the first time in a very long time, l took a leave from work.1st because l am tired, emotionally, physically. And only my Spiritual […]

#RflexionsBornMon

AskMany times as women, self included, because we hussle we see others when they try. Over the years l have paid a great deal in emotionally pain because l did not want those l care for to resort to ASK. I found myself assessing the situation and offer help before it’s asked for. This l have realised breeds entitlement and […]

SELF

SELF : Until one understand self, knows self and truthful to self one can never be fulfilled.The benefits of understanding self:–It gives us the power to influence outcomes.-It helps us to become better decision.-makers It gives us more self-confidence — so, as a result, we communicate with clarity and intention.-It allows us to understand things from multiple perspectives.-It frees us […]

Lesson from watching the sunrise

I woke up at my usual 5am club time. I decided to sit on the balcony and listen to the crushing waves. I am sure l could live on this spot forever. So lm putting it out there,” beach house “. As l set there l noticed the sun was about to rise. My mind began to wonder, how many […]

Power thought: Listen to advice and accept instruction and in the end

Listen to advice and accept instruction and in the end, you will be wise. Proverbs 19:20 Each one, reach one, teach one. Until all are taught. [Mark Victor Hansen ]  Mentors don’t need to be people. Anything that causes you to change course in life-a life-threatening disease, losing a job, reading a book, or a divorce can serve as a mentor [Tormentor ] Mark Victor […]

Mentor or Tormentor

Last Friday I had a meeting with my mentor who has just turned into a tormentor. What do I mean by that? This guy is my mentor and instead of saying all the things or doing all the things I needed him to do of late he started doing all the opposite, every time I get an email from him […]